Shalam to all who seek truth and understanding. Majority of the world has no clue or have been deceived about how marriage is instituted according to the Bible (KJV). Majority of the world follows the traditional ways of marriage and divorce their spouse for any reason. Through the scriptures and precepts; I am going to give you understanding according to the bible and how marriage is done as well as when you can divorce your spouse and other various topics.
Israelites are not suppose to marry a gentile, this is a commandment.
Before you read this study lesson please look below to read one of the study lessons as it applies to your gender or you can read both if you like, (recommended).
Israelites are not suppose to marry a gentile, this is a commandment.
Before you read this study lesson please look below to read one of the study lessons as it applies to your gender or you can read both if you like, (recommended).
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1 Corinthians 7:2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Fornication - 1. voluntary sexual intercourse outside marriage.
2. Voluntary sexual intercourse between two persons of the opposite sex, where one is or both are unmarried .
Precept to 1 Corinthians 7:2:
Proverbs 5:19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
Strong's # for Fornication
(Scripture tells us to avoid fornication by men having their own wife, and women having there own husband. That's how we are going to avoid fornication.)
How is Marriage Instituted According to the Bible?
Deuteronomy 22:13-22 If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,
14 And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:
15 Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:
16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;
19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
20 But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:
21 Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
22 If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
(The Jews marriage went like this and this is how a marriage is suppose to go according to the word of the Most High God. If a man wanted to marry another man's daughter, he would go to the Father of whom he wanted to marry his daughter and say I like your daughter and would like to marry her. Then the Father would speak with is daughter and if she says ok, then it was a go. After this the Father would say it would cost this amount of money to be with my daughter, then the Father would say to the man treat her right according to the Most High. During these times, there would be a price for your daughter, in what is called a diary. He would give the Father the payment, then the Father would give him a sheet that would go on their bed, they would go into the chambers, there they would have sex, the blood would come down on the token of virginity, they would wash off and then the husband and wife would go before the crowd and hold each part of the sheet to show that it was a good exchange and thats how the Jews marriage went according to Deuteronomy 22:13-22. Then the two Families would have a cermony.)
Here is another example of how a Marriage is done and this can be found in the Apocrypha in the book of Tobit.
Tobit 7:6-18 Then Raguel leaped up, and kissed him, and wept,
7 And blessed him, and said unto him, Thou art the son of an honest and good man. But when he had heard that Tobit was blind, he was sorrowful, and wept.
8 And likewise Edna his wife and Sara his daughter wept. Moreover they entertained them cheerfully; and after that they had killed a ram of the flock, they set store of meat on the table. Then said Tobias to Raphael, Brother Azarias, speak of those things of which thou didst talk in the way, and let this business be dispatched.
9 So he communicated the matter with Raguel: and Raguel said to Tobias, Eat and drink, and make merry:
10 For it is meet that thou shouldest marry my daughter: nevertheless I will declare unto thee the truth.
11 I have given my daughter in marriage te seven men, who died that night they came in unto her: nevertheless for the present be merry. But Tobias said, I will eat nothing here, till we agree and swear one to another.
12 Raguel said, Then take her from henceforth according to the manner, for thou art her cousin, and she is thine, and the merciful God give you good success in all things.
13 Then he called his daughter Sara, and she came to her father, and he took her by the hand, and gave her to be wife to Tobias, saying, Behold, take her after the law of Moses, and lead her away to thy father. And he blessed them;
14 And called E dna his wife, and took paper, and did write an instrument of covenants, and sealed it.
15 Then they began to eat.
16 After Raguel called his wife Edna, and said unto her, Sister, prepare another chamber, and bring her in thither.
17 Which when she had done as he had bidden her, she brought her thither: and she wept, and she received the tears of her daughter, and said unto her,
18 Be of good comfort, my daughter; the Lord of heaven and earth give thee joy for this thy sorrow: be of good comfort, my daughter.
14 And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:
15 Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:
16 And the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
17 And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
18 And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;
19 And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
20 But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:
21 Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
22 If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
(The Jews marriage went like this and this is how a marriage is suppose to go according to the word of the Most High God. If a man wanted to marry another man's daughter, he would go to the Father of whom he wanted to marry his daughter and say I like your daughter and would like to marry her. Then the Father would speak with is daughter and if she says ok, then it was a go. After this the Father would say it would cost this amount of money to be with my daughter, then the Father would say to the man treat her right according to the Most High. During these times, there would be a price for your daughter, in what is called a diary. He would give the Father the payment, then the Father would give him a sheet that would go on their bed, they would go into the chambers, there they would have sex, the blood would come down on the token of virginity, they would wash off and then the husband and wife would go before the crowd and hold each part of the sheet to show that it was a good exchange and thats how the Jews marriage went according to Deuteronomy 22:13-22. Then the two Families would have a cermony.)
Here is another example of how a Marriage is done and this can be found in the Apocrypha in the book of Tobit.
Tobit 7:6-18 Then Raguel leaped up, and kissed him, and wept,
7 And blessed him, and said unto him, Thou art the son of an honest and good man. But when he had heard that Tobit was blind, he was sorrowful, and wept.
8 And likewise Edna his wife and Sara his daughter wept. Moreover they entertained them cheerfully; and after that they had killed a ram of the flock, they set store of meat on the table. Then said Tobias to Raphael, Brother Azarias, speak of those things of which thou didst talk in the way, and let this business be dispatched.
9 So he communicated the matter with Raguel: and Raguel said to Tobias, Eat and drink, and make merry:
10 For it is meet that thou shouldest marry my daughter: nevertheless I will declare unto thee the truth.
11 I have given my daughter in marriage te seven men, who died that night they came in unto her: nevertheless for the present be merry. But Tobias said, I will eat nothing here, till we agree and swear one to another.
12 Raguel said, Then take her from henceforth according to the manner, for thou art her cousin, and she is thine, and the merciful God give you good success in all things.
13 Then he called his daughter Sara, and she came to her father, and he took her by the hand, and gave her to be wife to Tobias, saying, Behold, take her after the law of Moses, and lead her away to thy father. And he blessed them;
14 And called E dna his wife, and took paper, and did write an instrument of covenants, and sealed it.
15 Then they began to eat.
16 After Raguel called his wife Edna, and said unto her, Sister, prepare another chamber, and bring her in thither.
17 Which when she had done as he had bidden her, she brought her thither: and she wept, and she received the tears of her daughter, and said unto her,
18 Be of good comfort, my daughter; the Lord of heaven and earth give thee joy for this thy sorrow: be of good comfort, my daughter.
Marriage
Marriage is an intimate and personal union; to which a man and woman consent, consummated and is continuously nourished by sexual intercourse, and perfected in a life-long partnership of mutual love and commitment. It is also a social institution regulated by the Word of God and by the laws and customs which a society develops to safeguard its own continuity and welfare. The Creator made man and woman, displaying His full image only as both man and woman. Each is made for the other, their essential natures being complementary, and brought into oneness in marriage.
Genesis 2:23-24 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Precepts to Genesis 2:23:
Genesis 29:14 And Laban said to him, Surely thou art my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him the space of a month.
Judges 9:2 Speak, I pray you, in the ears of all the men of Shechem, Whether is better for you, either that all the sons of Jerubbaal, which are threescore and ten persons, reign over you, or that one reign over you? remember also that I am your bone and your flesh.
2 Samuel 5:1 Then came all the tribes of Israel to David unto Hebron, and spake, saying, Behold, we are thy bone and thy flesh.
Ephesians 5:3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;
Precepts to Genesis 22:24:
Psalms 45:10 Hearken, O daughter, and consider, and incline thine ear; forget also thine own people, and thy father's house;
Matthew 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Mark 10:7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
1 Corinthians 6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
Ephesians 5:28-31 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
(When men get married, he is suppose to leave his Father and Mother's house and cleave unto his wife.)
24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Precepts to Genesis 2:23:
Genesis 29:14 And Laban said to him, Surely thou art my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him the space of a month.
Judges 9:2 Speak, I pray you, in the ears of all the men of Shechem, Whether is better for you, either that all the sons of Jerubbaal, which are threescore and ten persons, reign over you, or that one reign over you? remember also that I am your bone and your flesh.
2 Samuel 5:1 Then came all the tribes of Israel to David unto Hebron, and spake, saying, Behold, we are thy bone and thy flesh.
Ephesians 5:3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;
Precepts to Genesis 22:24:
Psalms 45:10 Hearken, O daughter, and consider, and incline thine ear; forget also thine own people, and thy father's house;
Matthew 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Mark 10:7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
1 Corinthians 6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
Ephesians 5:28-31 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
(When men get married, he is suppose to leave his Father and Mother's house and cleave unto his wife.)
What Nationality of People Can I Marry?
Tobit 4:12 Beware of all whoredom, my son, and chiefly take a wife of the seed of thy fathers, and take not a strange woman to wife, which is not of thy father's tribe: for we are the children of the prophets, Noe, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob: remember, my son, that our fathers from the beginning, even that they all married wives of their own kindred, and were blessed in their children, and their seed shall inherit the land.
(The children of Israel which are the 12 Tribes, aren't suppose to marry the other Nations. If you are a so called Black man you aren't suppose to marry another Nationality of a people and likewise the other Nations.)
Tobit 6:15 Then the angel said unto him, Dost thou not remember the precepts which thy father gave thee, that thou shouldest marry a wife of thine own kindred? wherefore hear me, O my brother; for she shall be given thee to wife; and make thou no reckoning of the evil spirit; for this same night shall she be given thee in marriage.
(That is a commandment that we are to take a wife of our own Nationality. We aren't suppose to marry outside of our Nationality.)
(The children of Israel which are the 12 Tribes, aren't suppose to marry the other Nations. If you are a so called Black man you aren't suppose to marry another Nationality of a people and likewise the other Nations.)
Tobit 6:15 Then the angel said unto him, Dost thou not remember the precepts which thy father gave thee, that thou shouldest marry a wife of thine own kindred? wherefore hear me, O my brother; for she shall be given thee to wife; and make thou no reckoning of the evil spirit; for this same night shall she be given thee in marriage.
(That is a commandment that we are to take a wife of our own Nationality. We aren't suppose to marry outside of our Nationality.)
What Age Can a Man Get Married?
Deuteronomy 24:5 When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
Precept to Deuteronomy 24:5:
Proverbs 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Precepts to Proverbs 5:18:
Ecclesiastes 9:9 Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.
Malachi 2:14 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.
(When a man has a new wife he shall not go to war or be charged with any business, but he shall be free at home for one year to cheer up his wife. Continue to read to see what age is a man when he is able to go to war.)
Numbers 1:3 From twenty years old and upward, all that are able to go forth to war in Israel: thou and Aaron shall number them by their armies.
(In Numbers we understand that from the age of 20 years and upward a man can go to war. Thats why in Deuteronomy 24:5 it said "When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.")
Tobit 1:9 Furthermore, when I was come to the age of a man, I married Anna of mine own kindred, and of her I begat Tobias.
(According to the book of Tobit, Tobit said "when I was come to the age of a man, I married Anna of mine own kindred", and According to Numbers 1:3 the age of a man is 20 years old and up, thats when a man can marry from the age of 20 years and upward.)
Precept to Deuteronomy 24:5:
Proverbs 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Precepts to Proverbs 5:18:
Ecclesiastes 9:9 Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.
Malachi 2:14 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.
(When a man has a new wife he shall not go to war or be charged with any business, but he shall be free at home for one year to cheer up his wife. Continue to read to see what age is a man when he is able to go to war.)
Numbers 1:3 From twenty years old and upward, all that are able to go forth to war in Israel: thou and Aaron shall number them by their armies.
(In Numbers we understand that from the age of 20 years and upward a man can go to war. Thats why in Deuteronomy 24:5 it said "When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.")
Tobit 1:9 Furthermore, when I was come to the age of a man, I married Anna of mine own kindred, and of her I begat Tobias.
(According to the book of Tobit, Tobit said "when I was come to the age of a man, I married Anna of mine own kindred", and According to Numbers 1:3 the age of a man is 20 years old and up, thats when a man can marry from the age of 20 years and upward.)
What Are My Duties As a Husband or Wife?
Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
Ecclesiasticus 26:3 A good wife is a good portion, which shall be given in the portion of them that fear the Lord.
Ecclesiasticus 36:24 He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.
Ecclesiasticus 26:3 A good wife is a good portion, which shall be given in the portion of them that fear the Lord.
Ecclesiasticus 36:24 He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.
Husband Duties1 Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. 1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 1 Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Ephesians 5:28-31 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. |
Wife DutiesColossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Ecclesiasticus 26:14 A silent and loving woman is a gift of the Lord; and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed. Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Psalms 128:3 Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. Ecclesiasticus 26:26 A woman that honoureth her husband shall be judged wise of all; but she that dishonoureth him in her pride shall be counted ungodly of all. Titus 2:3-8 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, eachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. 6 Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded. |
To learn more about Marriage and Divorce and the rolls of the Husband and Wife see below:
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What NOT to do When Your Married
Leviticus 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Adulteress - A woman who commits adultery.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Adulteress - A woman who commits adultery.
Strong's # for Adultery
Strong's # for Adulteress
Precepts to Leviticus 20:10:
Deuteronomy 22:22 If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
Jeremiah 29:23 Because they have committed villany in Israel, and have committed adultery with their neighbours' wives, and have spoken lying words in my name, which I have not commanded them; even I know, and am a witness, saith the LORD.
John 8:4-5 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(In Leviticus 20:10 it tells us that if a man sleeps with his neighbor's wife or for that matter any man's wife he have committeh adultery and he shall be put to death as well as the woman for indulging in such an act.)
Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Lust - 1. Uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
Lecherousness - Erotically suggestive; inciting to lust.
2. Pleasure or delight; Desire; inclination; wish.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Precepts to Matthew 5:28:
Genesis 34:2 And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.
Proverbs 6:25 Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
Ephesians 5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and of God.
(When a man is married he is not suppose to look and lust after another woman, for he is married, and likewise the woman looking and lusting after another man when she is married.)
Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
(Scripture tells us if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another man she committeth adultery.)
Ecclesiasticus 9:9 Sit not at all with another man's wife, nor sit down with her in thine arms, and spend not thy money with her at the wine; lest thine heart incline unto her, and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction.
(Men who are married should not sit with another man's wife in there arms. This apllies to brothers going to the bar or night clubs buying woman drinks. Majority of these woman are married weather you know it or not. If you incline unto her or have sex with her you have comitted fornication, that's why at the end of the scriptures it says "and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction".)
Deuteronomy 22:22 If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
Jeremiah 29:23 Because they have committed villany in Israel, and have committed adultery with their neighbours' wives, and have spoken lying words in my name, which I have not commanded them; even I know, and am a witness, saith the LORD.
John 8:4-5 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(In Leviticus 20:10 it tells us that if a man sleeps with his neighbor's wife or for that matter any man's wife he have committeh adultery and he shall be put to death as well as the woman for indulging in such an act.)
Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Lust - 1. Uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
Lecherousness - Erotically suggestive; inciting to lust.
2. Pleasure or delight; Desire; inclination; wish.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Precepts to Matthew 5:28:
Genesis 34:2 And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.
Proverbs 6:25 Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
Ephesians 5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and of God.
(When a man is married he is not suppose to look and lust after another woman, for he is married, and likewise the woman looking and lusting after another man when she is married.)
Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
(Scripture tells us if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another man she committeth adultery.)
Ecclesiasticus 9:9 Sit not at all with another man's wife, nor sit down with her in thine arms, and spend not thy money with her at the wine; lest thine heart incline unto her, and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction.
(Men who are married should not sit with another man's wife in there arms. This apllies to brothers going to the bar or night clubs buying woman drinks. Majority of these woman are married weather you know it or not. If you incline unto her or have sex with her you have comitted fornication, that's why at the end of the scriptures it says "and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction".)
What to do Before a Married Man or Woman Wants to Seperate for a Time Period?
1 Corinthians 7:4-5 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Defraud - To take away or withhold money, rights, property, etc, from (a person) by fraud; cheat; swindle
Tempt - To entice or allure to do something often regarded as unwise, wrong, or immoral.
Incontinency - Lacking in moderation or self-control, especially of sexual desire.
Precept to 1 Corinthians 7:5:
2 Corinthians 11:3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.
Precepts to 2 Corinthians 11:3:
Genesis 3:4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
John 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
1 Timothy 1:3 As I besought thee to abide still at Ephesus, when I went into Macedonia, that thou mightest charge some that they teach no other doctrine,
4 Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do.
Hebrews 13:9 Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
(When a man or woman wants to separate for a time to clear their minds or to get there marriage back on the right track, they should come together in one consent (agreement). After the man and woman has separated they should be fasting and praying to the Most High God of israel that he heal there broken marriage or any problems that they are having within the marriage. The married man and woman should come back together again because if they stay separated for to long satan could tempt them through sexual desires, meaning enticing them to commit fornication.)
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Defraud - To take away or withhold money, rights, property, etc, from (a person) by fraud; cheat; swindle
Tempt - To entice or allure to do something often regarded as unwise, wrong, or immoral.
Incontinency - Lacking in moderation or self-control, especially of sexual desire.
Precept to 1 Corinthians 7:5:
2 Corinthians 11:3 But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.
Precepts to 2 Corinthians 11:3:
Genesis 3:4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
John 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
1 Timothy 1:3 As I besought thee to abide still at Ephesus, when I went into Macedonia, that thou mightest charge some that they teach no other doctrine,
4 Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do.
Hebrews 13:9 Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
(When a man or woman wants to separate for a time to clear their minds or to get there marriage back on the right track, they should come together in one consent (agreement). After the man and woman has separated they should be fasting and praying to the Most High God of israel that he heal there broken marriage or any problems that they are having within the marriage. The married man and woman should come back together again because if they stay separated for to long satan could tempt them through sexual desires, meaning enticing them to commit fornication.)
Can You Put Your Husband/Wife Away (Divorce) If You Dont Like Him or Her Anymore?
Strong's # for Put Away
Romans 7:1-2 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
Precepts to Romans 7:2:
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
1 Corinthians 7:39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
(According to the scripture a woman is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth, and according to Matthew 19:9 a man can put away (divorce) his wife only if she has commited fornicatoon and likewise the woman with the husband. )
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
Precepts to Romans 7:2:
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
1 Corinthians 7:39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
(According to the scripture a woman is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth, and according to Matthew 19:9 a man can put away (divorce) his wife only if she has commited fornicatoon and likewise the woman with the husband. )
When Can You Put Away (Divorce) Your Husband or Wife and Re-Marry?
Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Fornication - 1. voluntary sexual intercourse outside marriage.
2. Voluntary sexual intercourse between two persons of the opposite sex, where one is or both are unmarried .
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Precepts to Matthew 19:9:
Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Mark 10:11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her
husband committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
(The only way a Man can divorce his wife is if it be for fornication likewise the woman, and the man that has put away his wife for no reason unless it be for Fornication and marry another woman, that man commits adultery, because he has put away his wife for no reason. Also whosoever marries that woman who that man has put away for no reason, the man who marries her that is divorced committed adultery. People try the spirit of that man and woman before marrying them, because this isn't a joke.)
Romans 7:1-2 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Precepts to Romans 7:2:
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
1 Corinthians 7:39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Precepts to Romans 7:3:
Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Galatians 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
Galatians 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that
they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Hebrews 13:24 Salute all them that have the rule over you, and all the saints. They of Italy salute you.
(The only way a woman is free to marry another man, if her husband be dead, but if her husband is living she cannot marry another man as long as he is alive.)
Fornication - 1. voluntary sexual intercourse outside marriage.
2. Voluntary sexual intercourse between two persons of the opposite sex, where one is or both are unmarried .
Adultery - Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or woman and a partner other than the legal spouse.
Precepts to Matthew 19:9:
Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Mark 10:11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her
husband committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
(The only way a Man can divorce his wife is if it be for fornication likewise the woman, and the man that has put away his wife for no reason unless it be for Fornication and marry another woman, that man commits adultery, because he has put away his wife for no reason. Also whosoever marries that woman who that man has put away for no reason, the man who marries her that is divorced committed adultery. People try the spirit of that man and woman before marrying them, because this isn't a joke.)
Romans 7:1-2 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Precepts to Romans 7:2:
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
1 Corinthians 7:39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Precepts to Romans 7:3:
Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Mark 10:12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
Galatians 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
Galatians 5:21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that
they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Hebrews 13:24 Salute all them that have the rule over you, and all the saints. They of Italy salute you.
(The only way a woman is free to marry another man, if her husband be dead, but if her husband is living she cannot marry another man as long as he is alive.)
What To Do With an Unbeliveing Spouse?
1 Corinthians 7:12-15 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
Precept to 1 Corinthians 7:14:
Malachi 2:15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
(If you have an unbelieving spouse who doesn't believe in the truth and if he or she pleases to be with you, then let them leave not, because they are sanctified by either the Husband or Wife that believes in the truth (gospel). If one of the unbelieving spouse depart, then let them depart, because they are not bond to stay with you for they dont believe but you do. Once again, people try the spirit. )
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
Precept to 1 Corinthians 7:14:
Malachi 2:15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
(If you have an unbelieving spouse who doesn't believe in the truth and if he or she pleases to be with you, then let them leave not, because they are sanctified by either the Husband or Wife that believes in the truth (gospel). If one of the unbelieving spouse depart, then let them depart, because they are not bond to stay with you for they dont believe but you do. Once again, people try the spirit. )
What Does the Most High God say About Putting Away (Divorce)?
Malachi 2:16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
Precept to Malachi 2:16:
Deuteronomy 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Precept to Malachi 2:16:
Deuteronomy 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Strong's # for Put Away
(The Scripture tells us that the Most High God of Israel hates putting away (divorce, seperation). That's why it's important for us to really get to know that man or woman before marrying them, because marriage is for life unless that man or woman commits fornication or adultery.)
What Will Happen To All Whoremongers, Adulterers, Adultresses? What If a Fornicator Does Not Repent?
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Precepts to 1 Corinthians 6:9:
Isaiah 6:9 Then said I, Lord, how long? And he answered, Until the cities be wasted without inhabitant, and the houses without man, and the land be utterly desolate,
Acts 24:25 And as he reasoned of righteousness, temperance, and judgment to come, Felix trembled, and answered, Go thy way for this time; when I have a convenient season, I will call for thee.
(Scriptures tells us that they will not inherit the Kingdom of the Most High God.)
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(All adulterers will be judged.)
10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Precepts to 1 Corinthians 6:9:
Isaiah 6:9 Then said I, Lord, how long? And he answered, Until the cities be wasted without inhabitant, and the houses without man, and the land be utterly desolate,
Acts 24:25 And as he reasoned of righteousness, temperance, and judgment to come, Felix trembled, and answered, Go thy way for this time; when I have a convenient season, I will call for thee.
(Scriptures tells us that they will not inherit the Kingdom of the Most High God.)
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
(All adulterers will be judged.)
Conclusion
The whole conclusion of this study lesson is to let those who want to get married know that it's ok to want to get married and it is a Godly act, but we must try the spirit first before we do this or else there can be some serious consequences if you don't know or understand what is marriage and how it is instituted according to the Bible and not this world. We know that satan is the god of this present world and everytrhing that is told to us is not truth for satan has decieved this whole world (Revelation 12:9). Marriage is honorable, but that's if your marriage is on one accord.
1 John 4:1 Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
1 John 4:1 Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world.
